I’ve heard that when trying out a new pen for the first time 97% of people will write their own name.
In life we search for things that are familiar. At the ballpark we see people wearing our team’s colors. At a new restaurant we first look for the “Favorites”. A political candidate stirs our emotions by tapping into things we already believe.
They say the origin of the word Familiar comes from the phrase ‘of family’.
“…we learn how to love, and who to love, from our family… In fact, our unconscious acts like a GPS unit to seek a ‘familiar’ love that we’ve had in our family.” Daniel Tomasulo, Ph.D.
How ironic then for the “family” format to be so unfamiliar!